((( Inny ))) Thank you so much for sharing what you shared. You definitely made a lot of sense!! He sleeps a lot on weekends to make up for his lack of sleep during the week.

Last night he spent the night and fell asleep watching a movie. We're rarely intimate anymore....I can only hope its because he's always so tired, but I can't help but think he doesn't want me sexually anymore.

I woke up extremely early this morning, cat was howling. He'll sleep till noon.

((( Seeker ))) He doesn't drink a lot of caffeine actually. He's ADHD and blames everything on that. He says he can't get to sleep any earlier because of his "routine" that he has in the evening. "Has" to play a game of baseball on playstation and read his magazines.

I don't know much about ADHD. Every single problem I might have that I bring to him though, he blames on ADHD. Sounds like a really great back-up.....maybe I need to learn more about it.

He doesn't take anything for it. He went off meds a few years ago because they didn't do much to correct it.

I'm just feeling so torn. In the very beginning it was exciting and sexy and intimate and now it feels like we've been together 10 years. I think that's part of it for me. There's no newness anymore and I had told him we shouldn't let that die. Coupled with the fact that he's the first man to really please me in the bedroom and now we're down to once every couple weeks......I'm just TORN.