I had my first "girl crush" when I was in college. I was hanging out with this girl from one of my classes. She was an open lesbian. We talked about it and she called me "bi-curious" and said she didn't feel comfortable doing anything with me because she didn't want to take advantage.

Within the last year I had another female friend who never mentioned being gay but I picked up on it with her. We were great friends and I think that was partly what I was so attracted to, aside from the fact that she's really cute. A few months ago she moved to Cali and got into a relationship with a woman. I was almost jealous!

I think its definitely normal for us to be curious. I'm definitely all about men, but I do get attracted to girls sometimes, especially if we're good friends and I have a good connection with them.