I don't know anything and don't know how knowing about the woman would help me. I would not say, for me, not knowing is therapeutic or that knowing would be anti-therapeutic - I am more just not interested. I don't joke with or play with the woman - that is what I do with friends or people I know and the woman, the time I allowed it to happen, was not worthy and abused it. I don't care about having things in common with the woman.