Mmmmm... seeking advice on narcissism, from narcissists... that doesn't sound like a great idea to me. If it's true that narcissists don't see themselves as having a problem; do not want to change; aren't capable of empathy... I can't imagine a positive outcome. Therapy can be helpful to some extent, provided you're open and honest with your therapist and yourself. Depending on how extreme your NPD is, that might be difficult.