(((((((((( rayna )))))))))))))) you're so caring...

you can explain what you think it is that you're figuring out and ask him if it "touches home". it may open the proverbial door...

i'm not one to talk about feelings, discuss what scares me, etc, here in real life. i think that has to do with my upbringing. anyhow, men *on average* don't discuss alot because they're more problem solvers and doers at their core.

sometimes they, or ppl like me...hehe, need a jerk to say (after you've opened the door and if he's been receptive but experience with me says that i have to be in the place to be receptive), "Look you're showing your stuff big time...you think you've tucked it away or are running successfully? you're no. time to stop and sit. i love you. i'll sit with you." ppl like me really think they're hiding much better than they actually are. if you put it out in the open in might help there...

let us know.

love ya!

KD