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Originally Posted by Saltine American
oh yes, we do all of that, except anything sexual. He says he understands my "issues" but sometimes he's upset that I tell him we can have sex, but I need to get drunk first and this makes him think I'm not attracted to him, but that is NOT the case. I've never met someone so understanding and willing to put up with my...crap. thank you. I would think most people would think, ya he's cheating on you. but I trust him completely.
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He sounds like a good boyfriend.

I have never had a girlfriend, but I wouldn't mind not having sex as long as I could relieve my sexual frustration through some time alone periodically. Sex with a real person has always seemed a little bit scary and disgusting to me, so I can understand how you would feel similarly. Hopefully everything continues to work with you and your boyfriend.