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Old Dec 22, 2015, 12:30 PM
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Originally Posted by DBTDiva View Post
You are dxed with NPD and have a partner who has BPD? I am just curious, I have BPD and my boyfriend has NPD. My therapist said she had heard this was a good paring, because people with BPD have such an excess of emotions it doesn't scare people with NPD away. I've been really curious to find other people who are in BPD/NPD couples.

No. I was diagnosed with a nonspecific personality disorder and had narcissistic and borderline traits. My partner also has both but doesn't think he has a problem. Your insight is good though. I think on this particular issue I'm the one who was emotional and my partner was like a lizard. Very unpleasant . I think a bpd /npd couple if not treated is a bad idea.
Thanks for this!
DBTDiva