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Old Aug 18, 2007, 12:36 PM
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sabau2 said:
((((((((((((((((((((((((( inny ))))))))))))))))))))))))))

I know it's hard to understand why people would love us when we are not feeling our best. We tell ourselves that we are not worthy of anyone when we are not feeling worthy of ourselves. Remember this, you cannot make your boyfriend love you and stay with you. The fact that he does love you and is still with you is a testimony to his feelings for you.

Like mybestkids2 said, what is normal anyways??? We are what we are....warts and all. You are worthy of his love and acceptance.....even when you are feeling low. He sees what we here see of you....a wonderful and caring individual who is a hard worker. And who among us does not have some kind of problem in their lives they are dealing with? That is life.....for everyone! We do our best to get through and to learn and heal. You are no exception my friend.

Love & Hugs
sabby

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(((inacorner)))

sabau, excellent posting....... inacorner, i also have a very hard time with relationships because i feel unworthy of being treated well and loved....... but as others have said, the fact that your bf has told you that you havent trapped him, and that he seems to really want to be with you, should tell you something.... and again, ain't no such thing as "normal". we all have our crap, whether we have an official diagnosis or not. hope you're feeling better soon......
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