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Old Dec 22, 2015, 02:56 PM
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Originally Posted by Thrubeingcool13 View Post
"I'll try".... I can't help think that they just can't because of all the years of strange/abusive relationships they've had. Its like they have to just tune out in order to be intimate. I enjoy conversation etc.
My experience for when someone tunes out like that is that they are protecting themselves emotionally. It's usually subconsciously too. If your partner has had abusive relationships, it very well could be they'll need to talk through things in therapy to be able open up.
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