I know T fairly well and I am ok with that. T has shared a lot of his life with me, when it was appropriate to share, in appropriate ways. So, that means he shared when it applied to my situation, and he didn't do it in a way that made me feel like I was listening to his problems. However, I have been working with him for 4 years now, so I expect to know a good amount about it. I don't think that I could form a good attachment with me T if he hadn't shared himself with me. However, that is just me.