Copperstar, perhaps this perhaps is seeking forgiveness. See what he has to say, you owe him nothing. I think for someone to hold onto something like that is either trying to pick up the lost pieces and start over again. However a leopard cannot change its spots and neither can most people unless they have a spiritual experience that transforms them. Why ruffle your life for turmoil of yesterday? However it sounds like you need to know what his motives or intentions are, and that he needs to resolve something. tc