Don't believe all that 'false self stuff'
My NPD mother was a happy bunny. Takes all sorts.
Narcissism.
Mother stayed well, everyone else got treated.
There only one thing that's makes a pathological narcissist. A innate lack of empathy.
Extrovert or even interovert it's the same. No empathy. Born that way.

Thats my experience.

Narcs do need to be worshiped, obeyed. Without empathy and only aware of their own emotions they cannot understand why it's not all about them, anything else is an insult.
Mother sat on her throne. Her voice endlessly heard, a micro controller, a despot. She loved it!

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