I have NEVER wanted to be with someone that liked my friends. I had 2 friends, they are long gone to me now. It's not that I think I am better or that their choice in guys suck, but the idea of dating someone that once "liked" dated or even was attracted to one of my friends? YUCK. I suppose it's because My personality is much different than my friends, so beyond looks, I could never want to be with someone that was into my other friends.

So I dated a guy, only for maybe 3 months until October 2013. I never dated him before but he was in the group of people from my past/high school. He was sweet, very shy like me, but it didn't work out. He was actually the first guy I ever called and broke up with saying I was still in love with my ex.

In July 2014 I had a bout of mania, again, broke up with my faithful ex, and started dating a guy from my past. It didn't last long, again.

During that time my best friend had been more than angry with me. Various excuses, none of them valid. But I was surprised when I got a fb message from the oldie from 2013 being flirtatious and asking if I was going to her birthday party.

I rushed to my friends house who I told all about this. She said she had "friended" my ex awhile ago and that is why she invited him.
2 days later I found out they went and seen a movie together. I went to her house and in a dumb way tried to ask questions, giving her EVERY opportunity to tell me she liked him or what. later, on the phone I was a little more up front with her and she got *****y and said they were just friends and I was being paranoid.

A week later she texted me that they were in love and bla bla bla. my response was omg lmao. But then it turned into a hateful rant back and forth. I regret this.

A month later she calls and wants to come over and talk and I say ok? and she sits down and wants only to talk about him and them and how she misses me sooo much. I just told her I don't care. we were friends. now were not. do what you want.

A few months after that, she says she broke up with him and now she has some guy living in her basement who she's screwing but "don't tell anyone"

After that, all communication stopped. Assuming she got back with oldie.

I don't know why I posted this. I am not upset anymore, and I certainly do NOT miss her. I'm just wondering if anyone else has had friendships that ended similarly...