Hi there,

I didn't read all messages, sorry if it is redundant.

Have you told her that this friendship is bothering you? I don't this it's right what she is doing, but maybe she is not aware that it is hurting you? For the record, I totally understand you - I would be feeling pretty bad if something like that was happening to me. It's a violation of trust in a way.

Also keep in mind that people are different. Me - I think I am a jealous kind, I would be very jealous if my husband had a female drinking buddy and so on and it would definitely affect our relationship big time. Others - depends. A friend of mine doesn't seem to feel a grudge when her bf is not coming home for the night, or comes back early in the morning. She says she trusts him.