Hi, welcome to the forums.

I guess one of my main concerns is how all of this is affecting your daughters. For them to see everything that the boy is doing and getting away with, is not good for them.

Then there is your stress level. You obviously are not getting the support you need, either emotionally or in the raising of his son. I'm sorry.........I know how frustrating it can be when there is no backup for you.

Therapy may be helpful for you if you want to learn to cope with all of this. You won't be able to change your husband or his son - it is equally obvious that they have no wish to do so.

I wish you the best in making a decision about what to do.

I could not tolerate such a situation after only a few short years of marriage. At least your daughters are older and not small.

Take care and let us know what you decide.