I told my T what was keeping me from getting into action, looking for a new job. I said I was scared. T said 'Aren't you scared of everything?'.
I don't think she meant it in a bad way, but I couldn't let go of it.

If it would be true (I'm quite sure a lot scares me these days ), do you think a T can say it like that? I want my T to be honest. Maybe just not that honest...

Do you want your T to be absolutely honest, even when it hurts?