I am learning in AA that being sober is not the same thing as being in recovery.

This is a tough time of year and I also have to face family members who have bad memories of my previous behaviors. I find it helpful to recite the Serenity Prayer often throughout the day; do; 10th steps; do the 12th step and; accept that I am changing my life and it will take time for my family to believe that my changes are real and reflect who I truly am.

I will suggest that this is an important time to connect with your sponsor and share with others at meetings. If we continue to choose not to give in to addictive actions and behaviors, I believe we will find reasons to enjoy the holidays. One day at a time - and sometimes one moment at a time.