I don't really think about my T's feelings. I think she very capable to take care of herself. She looks confident and secure, so I don't worry about hurting her. Not that I would hurt her or something. I respect her.
A few weeks ago I did talk to her about her being late and how I felt about that. I wonder how she felt about that. If she felt blamed or something. But if she felt anything about it, as a T she should be able to deal with that.