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Old Dec 23, 2015, 10:07 PM
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Originally Posted by specialneedsmom View Post
I agree. That's why I did not keep contacting this person. I didn't want this person to be flattered by thinking someone valued her enough to keep trying to get a response.
So instead of fighting to keep a friendship alive, you're more afraid of flattering someone by trying to contact her multiple times? I don't think this is what friendship is about TBH. It doesn't sound like this person was a close friend, or even much beyond an acquaintance. I know I'd fight to keep a good friend in my life, especially if I didn't know the reason why they're incommunicado.

This response seems a bit like a put down. You don't want this person to think that someone values her? (Stuff like this is why I gravitate toward friendships with men. They don't think like this usually.)
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