I'm rereading all the posts thinking I've missed something... but it doesn't seem like I have? I just don't understand some of these replies. Why is it OK in your mind to expect her to communicate with you? You've said yourself that you've talked very little, and presumably you don't know very much about her. She isn't obliged to talk to you, or get to know you, right? Like, if someone isn't interested you can't force them to talk to you.