Someone upstream mentioned feminist psychotherapy. It is not. That is very misinformed thinking. Feminist therapy considers the social, cultural and political forces that impact an individual in therapy. And it's for men as well as women. It has nothing to do with licking. Sheesh. My therapist practices from feminist theory and she does nothing of this sort.

I honestly have no idea what to make of this new therapist. It would definitely not be for me. You've said you're in a program that practices Gestault (also not for me). I guess I would want to gauge if this makes you too uncomfortable to keep going.