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Old Dec 24, 2015, 01:14 PM
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Originally Posted by qwertykeyboard View Post
Going an extra week without seeing T bc they're away for the holiday has been so difficult for me. Plus I'm off of work, so with all this free time I've been thinking about T a ton and how I wish I could talk about getting through these empty days and not going through it alone.

It's also difficult thinking about how T is spending their time. I feel more comfortable knowing that T is in their office doing work things.

AHHH I JUST WANT TO SCREAM.
I'll scream with you because I know how you feel! I always have difficulties when my T is on vacation. I want her in the office where she belongs! Mine is going away with her new boyfriend (she's divorced) and I'm having an even harder time because of that.

What to do? Let your feelings out like you're doing here. I post a lot when I feel lonely. Then, find things to do that are distracting. Do you have family or friends to be with for Christmas? If not, visit people in nursing homes or hospitals, or somewhere they need you? Do you have any hobbies? Now's the time to jump in, since you're off from work. Novels you never had time to read? Emails to catch up on? New places to go to, like a museum? Just some ideas.

When will your T be back? Post more if it helps, or send me a PM. We can get through this together.
Thanks for this!
qwertykeyboard