Thanks all for your support and sharing your wisdom/ experience!! I ended up getting all A's except for the class I mentioned earlier, which was a c. I ended up basically doing two of my classes though. Next semester I will have double classes and teaching an after school program as well as working weekends. I've already been warning him and preparing him that he's never gonna see me. He says this is why he wants to move in together but I really can't afford that right now cause I'm trying to get out of debt so I can buy a house.

So at the moment, I think I'll just let him do all the apartment hunting, if he is the one who is really motivated. I already searched one we could mostly afford, and set up the appointment to see it and all but he wouldn't have passed the background check (dui), so we didn't even try to pay the application fee and apply. Since then he says I should find out what I can qualify for cause I will pass the background check and then I guess he is thinking he can just basically live there our something. Which I guess if be fine with cause he'd be helping with rent (which I would need).

But I honestly don't think I'll qualify for much on my income only, so I don't even think I'm going to look since it is really not in my best interests right now. If he is the one who really wants it, he can be the one to find something that would suit us both and fit our criteria. He is real big on me making the decisions (seems like only when he doesn't want to though, and then when he does I don't have much of a say). But this is one I'm going to basically leave to him. Now, on to next semester with full force! Full speed ahead with indefinite focus and determination. Nothing is going to stop me from meeting my goals, not even him.