In terms of what they would LIKE you to do, as far as reaching out to them, for help in meeting your goals?

My t said yesterday - somewhat ominously, it seemed to me! - that he would be thinking about me over the long holiday weekend. Recently there have been a couple of things that caused me to go catatonic (loosely speaking) and not be as productive as i could have been during time away from him. I always promise to call him if it happens again but i never do. So this morning i did text him that i accomplished some work we had discussed, and asked if it was alright if i kept him posted so we dont have a big sad surprise on monday. He texted right back (wow!) very encouragingly. So i feel like i turned a corner. But i still have a shytload of work to do here.