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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel
I was with my ex-T for 17 months. My story is kinda complicated, so I'm not going to get into all the details. On March 10th, I went to therapy like any other day. I sat down on the couch and she told me we're terminating. I cried, I begged. She wouldn't give me any answers. So I left. (That's the simplified story). In her last email to me, she told me to never contact her again.
The grieving process has been difficult. I have gotten a lot of support from PC, my fiance, and my new T. I wouldn't be where I'm at now w/o them. Just being able to repeat myself over and over again, having people relate, encourage, listen....it helped so much. But the grieving process is different for everyone.
The best advice I can give you is to continue to reach out for support and be patient with yourself.
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Scarlet,
I can so relate to your posts. How did you ever trust the profession again and find a new T? My T abandoned me suddenly after 3 years with no explanation. She refuses to let me communicate with her in any way. I don't feel I can ever trust again until I understand what happened, and since she won't communicate with me, I feel my only option it to confront her in person. I am attempting to do this now after backing off for almost two months. If I don't resolve this issue, I am done. Any suggestions on how to reach my therapist and how to move on to trust again? Also, do you know any legal reason she won't speak with me? She is very by the book when it comes to rules. I am thinking of having my medical doctor try to reach her or going to see a new T just to get this issue resolved.
Thanks,
J