The second appointment?!!This T is WAY too aggressive and ahead of everything about you. She definitely needs to go back into training or she's going to send someone to the hospital who's even slightly ill mentally. I would be so afraid I would get into a Transference relationship with this creep and end up in the psych ward very soon! I can see legal actions against her, even, if she doesn't cut this explicit stuff out with new patients. She reminds me of the pop psychology where all you have to do is be your own good parent and everything will be OK. Not.