This is a stupid question, and I know I'm going to look at this thread in the morning and regret it but I honestly don't know what else I can do.

Has anyone found a way to speed up the process of forgetting about someone, and in particular to stop missing them? I've Googled around but it's just not working out for me. I just want to get over this whole thing and move on. I was thinking about her celebrating Christmas with her family, and I wondered if I'd even cross her mind. Maybe she'd think "oh yeah... that guy! I wonder if he's OK". And then I realised nope, because if I ever did cross her mind things wouldn't have turned out as bad as they did. Realising that someone you care about doesn't actually care about you is the most horrible feeling ever. It's like the whole relationship meant absolutely nothing. I know this is me feeling sorry for myself and being overly emotional, but that's how I feel right now. How do other people deal with this?