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Originally Posted by lolagrace
It wouldn't be for me. IF I didn't walk out right then and there, I definitely would not have returned.
If you are comfortable with it and it seems helpful . . . But you mentioned she seemed to be flirty and treating you differently as well as you also feel she is moving fast. That concerns me because of your history of issues with other therapists. Just don't ignore your own warning signals.
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I am actually confused about it all, hence why it helps but also scares me because it is moving so fast and I feel lick she is flirting with me. See, I do always end up getting erotic transference towards my older female ts and I knew that they were never available for anything only to be my t in the confines of a t client relationship. This is somewhat different, realistically I know she is married and has kids but she is in an open relationship. She has asked me very personal questions and is very touchy feely. I always wanted a t to touch me but now that she has i am scared and excited. Boundaries are important and I feel like hers are too loose too quick. It doesn't feel like a t client relationship.
Thank you for pointing this out and helping me to process it a bit more Lolagrace
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