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Old Dec 24, 2015, 06:04 PM
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Originally Posted by monalisasmile View Post
I am actually confused about it all, hence why it helps but also scares me because it is moving so fast and I feel lick she is flirting with me. See, I do always end up getting erotic transference towards my older female ts and I knew that they were never available for anything only to be my t in the confines of a t client relationship. This is somewhat different, realistically I know she is married and has kids but she is in an open relationship. She has asked me very personal questions and is very touchy feely. I always wanted a t to touch me but now that she has i am scared and excited. Boundaries are important and I feel like hers are too loose too quick. It doesn't feel like a t client relationship.
Thank you for pointing this out and helping me to process it a bit more Lolagrace

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Confused , scared and excited are the words that jump out to me. Maybe your gut feeling is caution? It does seem a little fast. I got burnt by a T , though not in the same circumstances - horrible.
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