((( Bebop ))) Thanks hon, I think things will get better now that I have a much better understanding of things.

((( Tranquility ))) Yes.....I'm going to try and tred lightly with this one...he has a sponsor. He calls him once in a blue moon and they'll chat quickly when they see each other at a meeting. What I will say is that he has a TOTALLY different program than I do. I'm not saying better or worse or any of that....just way different. He hasn't had a sponsee in awhile, and just got one and so did I. I know when I'm sponsoring, things in my personal life go better because I'm thrown harder into my program. So we'll see how that goes. But yes....quantity does not always equal quality....not to say the quality of his program is bad, our programs just have very different qualities. I'm learning a lot about my own program in this relationship. And I'm very much learning to LOVE my program and my close friendships with a lot of people. So ah...yeah. That is definitely a factor. And thats all I should say on that.