Yes, if my son had told me 4 days ago which day he would come over it would help. (That was the first time I asked). Did this help? Well, I believe the bad information about this illness does help others - so I tend to try to share when I am negative. I also share when I read other peoples posts the low points in my life. I feel like I need have no secrets with you all because I don't want anyone to make the poor choices I did. (by refusing treatment for decades).