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Originally Posted by bipolardigest
Hi,
It's good you expressed to him what was going on through your mind. I think that helped because it didn't get bottled up inside. Let me ask you: How come you didn't call him? Maybe you could have expressed better by calling him instead of the FB conversation. This was you'll get an answer right away instead of waiting around which triggered your rage...right?
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FB is how we communicate. For us its common. He would still have to find out from his wife what day they would come by. Yes, not knowing is what caused the response. Rapid Cycling is only my fault. The turmoil of not knowing got caught up in that. I still don't know. Haven't known when for over a week. Today I am fine and handling it with no problem. I do hope they don't just show up, and respect my clearly typed sentence," Please give me one day notice before you stop by so I can get mentally prepared". I don't expect it thought, last year I didn't get a notice either (ugh they are in the driveway now)