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Dec 25, 2015, 06:30 PM

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Originally Posted by rainbow8

I don't know, Mona. My gut feeling, and I'm sorry to have to say it, is that this T is not going to be good for you. I hope I'm wrong because you deserve a decent T. I think the transference is going to overwhelm you, and boundaries may be an issue. She sounds intriguing, and I would be excited too. That's the problem. For me, excitement in therapy makes it too much about the T, and not about me. It feels good, but it's not the goal of therapy. Please be careful if you stay with this T.

Thanks Rainbow, I appreciate the concern. I have had a bad feeling about all of this since posting this thread. I need a t like her but perhaps one with stronger boundaries and not as open about her own sexuality because I am spending all of my time thinking about her and in some ways I have regressed and gone back to behaviours I would have had with t one.
I am not sure what this t wants from me because she has said some pretty inappropriate flirty things to me that would not be suitable with a real client. I mean someone who is not training to be a t.

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