---What I see as my objective is to uncover the repressions of a lifetime and learn to accept the person in my skin. I would like to somehow let that 12 year old abandoned girl who still lives inside find a voice and help me finish growing up whole.--

This is truely a good reason to tell your wife.
Carrie

<font color=green>Not knowing when the dawn will come, I open every door.--Emily Dickenson