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Old Dec 26, 2015, 10:22 AM
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Originally Posted by monalisasmile View Post
Thank you ruh roh [emoji5]
I don't know anyone else that has worked with her, I wish I did so we could compare. I have only seen her with one of my tutors outside if session and she was really flirty with her, they hugged and kissed and made a joke about running off together. We were all shocked.
Perhaps you are on to something here ruh roh she does try to shock people, her appearance is very shocking. She wears bright red and has bright red hair. Part of gestalt is to provoke, she told me she didn't like the old fritz Perls way of working but she is trying to provoke something in me or wake my sexuality.

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I think it would be perfectly okay for you to say she got your attention, thank her for the insight, and say you'd like to keep exploring other therapist options. I don't fully understand the program you're in, or the pressures they put on you, but you do not have to try every thing under the sun or put up with provocative behavior that doesn't have a more secure frame. You've done a lot in that regard already. This might be a good opportunity to set some boundaries with the people in this program. Honestly, I think I'm just so glad you moved on from the other one, this one doesn't shock me (especially since you seem to feel more able to question her approach).