I get that lingering action also. Like after I've assumed control that body movements and such still linger on....same goes to others when I leave. It's especially noticeable and annoying when you go from fem to male and visa versa. We have to shake it off and exert some effort in overriding the lingering effects.

Sometimes I wonder if it's more on the lines of co-hosting or co-present where the fringes of each other are overlapping.

And to answer the original question, yes on the sexual attractions part. We have them all!