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And I might as well add this person is hardly my friend: rather some random person I keep running into on the forum. There are a few people like that; we've never even spoken.
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Assuming she is being truthful (and this being the internet that is a big assumption), you only have her perspective on events. I think the internet is a brilliant resource, but we should always take unverified personal writings with a good pinch of salt.
As for your dismissal of your own kindness, would you dismiss others for their kindness? Do you reserve this harsh judgement for yourself? If so reading up on self compassion may help:
Self-Compassion