Being raped at 13 by my basically stepbrother, he contacted me the other day on instant messenger saying I hope it's ok to say hi. Not sure how to deal with this. My mom says I should move on like almost like forget it happened and still think she doesnt believe that it was rape vs sex. But anyway I ignored the message from him.... what is normal or whatever like common reaction to this: like any suggestions like what u would do if u were me?