She claims it doesn't bother her, but that doesn't change the fact that I cannot bring myself to like someone that treats the woman I love like she is less than dirt. My fiance is benevolent and absolutely the sweetest person I know and I cannot stand seeing someone put her down. She admittedly does suffer from low self esteem and that is part of why I get so upset about all of it. I can't understand how she is upset about lacking confidence, but then she lets herself get treated that way. It has taken me a great deal of restraint to not go off on her sister. This is the worst experience of my life. I love this woman more than I ever imagined loving anyone and I've cherished her to the best of my abilities.

she says her sister claimed she wants to be friends with who my fiance marries..I asked my fiance if she's told her sister why I don't consider her as friendly and her sister apparently said I need to get over out because that's how it has been. Umm so because she's been a callous *expletive* for however long it makes it okay and I should like her regardless? She should always be cruel toward her twin sister because she never developed past the adolescent stage?