Sounds like a self esteem problem. The list is all related with that as the underlying theme. Have you ever tried DBT for therapy. I learned so much about myself in that therapy & it sort of empowers self & teaches skills so we feel more in control of our own lives.

The question is do you feel the same way about yourself that these people did with their criticism? Or is it just them being critical. If you like the way you are...it's not a problem. It not then it is something to work on