The dissociative disorders is like a PTSD spectrum as described by some with DID as the ultimate worst version with its own definition- the main characteristic being is having amnesia between parts- and OSDD being where the rest of us (nut jobs) lay with co-conscienceness.
Not everyone knows that they are DID/OSDD at first or even suspect it....it's either discovered later in life or kept under cover in denial. I know along the way I've often dismissed things as quirks, called it "normal", or flat ignored it.
So, if you do suspect or are concerned about something, start investigating and asking questions and to make sure to have a therapist validate your concerns.
Calling yourself 'we" in mind and thought shows that you have awareness of some kind of multiplicity, but as to what kind it is is still a mystery yet to be solved. I'm open to answer any questions that you might have based on what I know about this in hopes of not misleading anyone.
We have debates quite often over things that some gets pretty sore headed that they don't get their way just to have the final "I told ya so" in the end! Lol
Keep coming back!