I don't expect her to do anything about the way her sister treats her. It just confuses me that she realizes having low self esteem and lack of confidence in herself is an issue for her, but she won't even stand up and tell her sister that she'll talk on the phone if she feels like it. I don't know what she expects from me as far as my relationship with her sister. I have said pretty much what everyone has said about it being hard to respect someone that is callous and mean to someone I love when it is not warranted at all let alone like them enough to consider them a friend. Their older brother has a saying that "it's her world and everyone else is paying rent. "

The whole thing is too much for me to wrap my head around. She has always said how I'm everything she's been praying for for all this time and that I love her perfectly and for who she is. So to have her crying and depressed because she doesn't know what to do because she wants who she marries to be friends with her sister crushes me.I've never heard of someone giving up true love and a great relationship over the fact that the person doesn't get along with their sibling, etc.