Perhaps you could try wording your post title differently & putting it into the Relationships forum?? That room is a lot busier than this one, which has it's advantages and disadvantages.

One side: it would be seen by a lot more people, and might get more input.

Other side: since the Relationships forum moves so quickly, you may need to go in every couple of days and *bump* your post, so the thread lasts a bit longer.

(((best wishes)))