If you haven't gotten too attached already to look for someone else, quit this T. She already isn't allowing you to have a problem you think you do. T should acknowledge your pain as you present it and help you talk and feel about it. Maybe she is just trying not to be racist and she thinks downplaying it is the way to show you that.
Explain to T that she isn't following you; and if she doesn't listen up, she needs more training and you don't have time to wait for it.