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Originally Posted by ilikecats
I guess what I would gain is to ease my guilt. It's probably not worth the risks though. I do think I'd like her to say it's okay. I doubt that would happen though. Maybe I would want her to be angry. I'm not sure what I want.
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I would figure out for sure what you want to get out of telling her, consider all possible consequences, decide whether or not you can live with those consequences, and then decide whether to tell her.
This is a good strategy for any potentially fraught discussion you have with anyone.