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Originally Posted by atisketatasket
I would figure out for sure what you want to get out of telling her, consider all possible consequences, decide whether or not you can live with those consequences, and then decide whether to tell her.
This is a good strategy for any potentially fraught discussion you have with anyone.
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Thanks, that's a good idea. Right now the main consequence I'm worried about is that she would stop seeing me. Nothing would be worth that, but I'm also not sure how realistic that possibility is. I feel like she wouldn't stop seeing me just because of this, but I don't know that for sure.