told thru all our existence it is our fault. that has been the truth we were taught.

It is not the truth. It's all LIES. These people LIED to you.

Nothing was your fault. Not one thing.

What would you tell me if I came to you with this? You need to learn to care for yourself like you care for us.

If you cannot do that yet, then let us.

You are a kind, generous, and wonderful constellation.