I've never been attached. I've had some therapists I like more than others but really, the only time I get upset when a therapist leaves is I have to start over from the beginning with a new one. But generally, they're like all other doctors to me, great when they're good, a hassle to get a new one but other than that? It matters not to me. I think it's generally healthy to not get attached to therapists. For me anyway, it would be troubling if I wanted to have sex with or be best friends forever with my therapist. I would start worrying about what if they think poorly of me and trying to make myself look better than trying to be honest about my issues.