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Old Dec 28, 2015, 02:48 AM
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Uhm I'd say that MOST stalkers don't start out trying to do harm. They just want to get closer to the object of affection. Which is just what you're doing, trying to feel closer to your therapist. So just stop. If you don't, it could progress, therapy could be terminated, you could get a restraining order slapped against you, etc. Best not to go down that path.

AND it's best for you to learn restraint and proper boundaries.

It's evident that many replies (not all) are from people who have never been stalked.

You could make your therapist feel unsafe in her own home. Sorry, but that's extremely selfish......you getting your needs/wants met while putting her feelings of safety aside. Think about what you're doing. Safety is near the bottom of the pyramid of needs. Nobody else has a right to threaten another's feelings of safety.

Maybe this sounds harsh, but as someone who has never felt safe in this world, I know that feeling safe is very important, something most people take for granted.
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