I found out that he bought an expensive pair of boots for christmas. He lied to me about going over someone elses house. He told the kids to lie to me about being there. They begged me not to say anything to him. The only reason I found out was because he said that he was going to this friends house and that friends house. He never mentioned her house. The girls came home with pillow pets and he was behind me and I noticed that they looked at him and quickly they were quiet. I cant believe he told the kids to lie to me. I need a good lawyer.